Friday is upon us! And what better way to celebrate a Friday than adult beverages and casual sex?!
I got the talking last night with some people about their early twenties and how casual sex has changed over the decades. Me being at the prime age of 30, got me reflecting on my sex life ten years ago. Has casual sex changed? Or is it simply our perspective that has changed? With my single days behind me and nearly four years in a committed relationship, I’m still a cheerleader for casual sex. As long as you’re being safe and respectful, why not? Kids play with various toys all the time, even sharing their toys. As adults, I don’t feel like we should have it any different. Play well with others, play with a friend, invite a friend — whatever floats your boat, right? Maybe…
As it turns out, the older some people get the farther away from their past actions they get, forgetting & forgoing the thrill of sexual youth. “Casual sex sure was different in MY day.” A lot of things were different, doesn’t make it wrong. Just makes it different. You can’t tell me people weren’t wife swapping in the 60’s or even way before then. Sure, it was more hushed than it is these days, but it still happened. With help from swingers sites and other sexually curious .com’s, sexual preference is wild and thriving!
Sexual openness is the key to unlock the door to erotic pleasure. Sometimes it takes a few throes in the sack to find that right person who can please you the way you like. And as my mama always said, “Practice makes perfect” … it certainly does.
Too many people shy away from what gives them sexual pleasure. Whether it’s a fear of being denied or judged, unless you have trust and sexual openness, chances are your partner has things he or she may want to try. So someone bite the bullet and get kinky damnit!
Have fun. Be safe, be fun, be happy.